White Lotus Flower

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The Lens of Shame

I grew up drowning in fear, shame, and rejection. That’s all I knew. I viewed everything through the lens of shame. Even when nobody was shaming me, I did it ...
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Tilling the Soil

I have a Gardener who delights in transforming barren, dry, and desolate ground into something beautiful. His work is rooted in love and grace. The soil must be tended, cared ...

About Me!

Hi! My name is Betty. I enjoy reading, writing, puzzles, coffee, deep conversations, and long walks that allow my mind to wander. I strive to provide a safe space for others to share their stories, because I believe that healing begins when we are seen and heard.  Life is often messy and hard. I write about things that many of us carry quietly – addiction, healing, relationships, triggers, trauma, growth, connection.

 I’m a work in progress, just like everyone else.  This blog is a place for honesty, curiosity, relating, and learning how to move through life with greater understanding and less shame knowing you are not alone.

I have three adult children who are living their best lives, and I live in Virginia with my three cats, Amelia, Ophelia, and Ledo.

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